A brilliant suggestion from my direct was to look at the way President Obama speaks and the charisma and charm he effortlessly exudes. The specific word he used was "magnanimous". This is now the word I think of whenever I need to get into character. This video helped me to understand the way he can command conifdence from anyone without having to ask for it. It's all about taking your time when you speak, pausing, making them wait for you. Smiling. Another note I got was that I give too much eye contact. I have to give it when I feel like the person I am talking to has earned it or I want to make them feel important or special.
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